Seeing God’s Plan

It is hard to see that God has a plan for each of us. Especially when our vision gets so narrow that only our problems are in focus. I had a difficult year in 2001 during which I couldn’t possibly explain or understand. But it’s beginning to make sense. I lost two people very close to me during the year. My father passed away in February, and then in early December, my dear friend and confidante, Fran, passed away at the age of 91. Both of these people were cherished and dear to my heart. Both led me down different paths. My father was only 74 years old and died after 11 weeks in critical condition due to a never-to-be-fully-understood lung ailment. Fran suffered from severe dementia and spent the last three years of her life in a nursing home unable to remember my name or who I was.

Shortly after my father died, the father of a good friend of mine was diagnosed with terminal lung cancer. I am better able to listen and empathize with her because of my experience with my dad. I have been able to talk to her about all the thoughts that run through your mind when you’re losing a parent. Often, she and I have cried together.

Recently, the father of a lifelong friend has become almost incapacitated due to several medical conditions. My friend is looking into home health care and will perhaps eventually have to consider nursing home care. I will be there for her, and I’ll understand because of my experience with Fran — all part of God’s plan.

I was given my challenges in order to help friends and others not yet known. I think I was unburdened of these challenges last year so I would have the time to lend to others now. God teaches us to help others in need. I think He also clears the path for us to do this in His name. He knew what He was doing last year, and I am grateful and humbled to be part of His plan.

 

TODAY: Follow the directions of this artist and his friend who liked our 2001 booklet so much they wanted to share an idea.